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Fatherhood - Learning to be a FatherAuthor: Family Wise Magazine More and more men are taking their role as daddy very seriously. There are many Internet sites dedicated to new fathers and helping them to navigate through the challenges. Member sites just for new dads are filling up quickly and daddy's rush from work to attend their child's nursery school event or soccer game. Never before has there been such an interest in hands on parenting in new fathers. In the past, the majority of fathers were delighted with the new baby on the way, but coolly waited out the pregnancy not getting too involved except to assemble nursery furniture and attend birthing classes with their partner. Most only became involved when their child was old enough to interact with them. Women bond faster with the new baby for obvious reasons. Mothering and nurturing come naturally to most new mommies, with a little common sense thrown in. Mothers learn to be a mother from the moment they are aware they are pregnant. It's their job to take care of the baby in their body and that caring naturally continues after the birth. Unfortunately, fathers don't experience what mothers do. They have to learn to parent after the baby arrives. Suddenly they are expected to know how to be a father. They'll draw upon their experiences growing up with their father and most will parent exactly as their fathers did. This can be good or it can be bad. During the pregnancy, the mother-to-be is busy recording every thought, feeling and wish into her pregnancy journal. This process allows her to reflect and to plan how she will mother this new child. This process puts her far ahead of the new father when the new baby arrives. It's time to level the playing field and help the daddy-to-be bond earlier with his new child. Mothers can help by: * Getting daddy to answer some of the questions in her pregnancy journal * Have daddy record an audio for his new child of his hopes and wishes * Write letters to his child during the pregnancy * Have daddy think about how he was raised and how he wants to raise his new child Too many children have grown up not knowing their father. It's not natural for most men to verbalize their emotions or to record them. Our children have an intimate keepsake from their mothers. It's time we help new fathers into fatherhood and assist them in bonding with our children during the pregnancy.
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